'Curiouser and curiouser' - Weekly Reflection 26th April 2026

Curiouser and curiouser…

This phrase is from Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland (London: Macmillan & Co., 1865), by the English author Lewis Carroll. 

“Curiouser and curiouser!” cried Alice (she was so much surprised, that for the moment she quite forgot how to speak good English.”

And on curiosity we are all probably aware of the phrase ‘curiosity killed the cat.’ However, are you aware of the full proverb that makes a tad more sense, the full saying is ‘Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back.’ The moral of the proverb is to avoid curiosity for curiosity’s sake if you should be minding your own business. When someone says ‘curiosity killed the cat’ they are warning you that curiosity can be dangerous and lead to misfortune if left unchecked by wisdom.

I have just begun to read ‘The Devil You Know’ co-authored by Gwen Adshead and Eileen Horne. (Faber & Faber 2022). Dr Gwen Adshead gave the fascinating Reith Lectures in 2024 exploring evil and violence. BBC Radio 4 - The Reith Lectures, Gwen Adshead - Four Questions about Violence, Can we change violent minds?

The Lectures are drawn in part from the book, especially with some of the case studies. For that is what the book offers. Twelve people who have committed crimes of violence.

Adshead is obviously curious and it is this curiosity that drives her work with some of the most damaged and damaging people as one of the leading forensic psychiatrists in Britain. The danger for readers is a morbid curiosity and wanting to pour over lurid details. 

However, Adshead’s motivation in inviting us to step into the treatment room and meet these twelve people is to try and demonstrate there is a powerful case to be made for rehabilitation over that of revenge, compassion over condemnation and empathy over fear.

What is our motivation for being curious about another person? The range of motivations cover a very broad spectrum from wanting to gain power over them, maybe to do them some harm. Or more benign, we may want to really know who they are and what struggles they are facing so that we might be able to help.  However, that carries a health warning, as in the full proverb quoted above, ‘curiosity killed the cat’ is a warning that curiosity can be dangerous and lead to misfortune if left unchecked by wisdom.  I can tell you from my own experience when trying to help someone I got way out of my depth and because of other factors I was dealing with at the time, I had a break-down. Thankfully nothing too serious and after some rest and recuperation I was soon back at work. But that little brush with the danger of going out of your depth was a valuable life lesson. I now know the signs and will take steps to step out, step back, or whatever is needed to keep myself safe and the other person safe.

However, overall on balance having a healthy curiosity of the other is good and can help society to flourish.

I don’t want to go down an Alice’s rabbit hole scenario and talk about the ongoing conflict between the USA and Iran, but it would seem obvious that the USA Administration have very little understanding about the Iranian culture.  Conversely it would appear that the Iranians do have a curiosity about the USA and western culture, which, for the most part, they have chosen to reject.

I am drawn to the story of the Samaritan woman Jesus encountered at the well as recorded in John 4. And I am curious about Jesus’ curiosity. Jesus' curiosity about other people, his curiosity about the Sadducees, the Pharisees, the lepers, the prostitutes. Was Jesus curious about other people?

And why the Samaritan women – well, after her encounter she went and told the villagers, ‘come and meet a man who has told me everything I have done.’

Now, I have no problem with ‘divine revelation’ there are several stories like this in the Scriptures. There are also many people who will claim to have a divine revelation about someone and often accompanied by a message from God. So, no problem there.

However, what I would struggle with, was if Jesus always took the short cut route and when encountering someone called up a heavenly record to fact check on the person.

I think Jesus was immensely curious about people. So much so that this got him into trouble. Because he was curious about the sorts of people who didn’t matter in the eyes of the rich and powerful and the leaders. (See Matt.23.4)    However, the little people, the outcasts, the prisoners, the poor, deaf, the lame and the mute. We see Jesus spending time with such people. Because, as with Gwen Adshead, Jesus knew it is the sick who need a physician.

I wouldn’t dream of stepping anywhere close to the sort of thing Gwen does. However, we can listen to her story, as she invites us to listen to the stories of those whom society has cast down, cast out, and most often cast away.

We can listen and learn wisdom about what is a healthy, good and an appropriate curiosity about the other. We can learn to listen attentively to the other as well as learning to listen to the Spirit, being open to what the Spirit may disclose.

 I hope something in this reflection has piqued your curiosity!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

'Marking Dates and Days' - Weekly Reflection 19th April 2026

We always knew this day would come!

Today at St Oswald’s we said farewell to our Vicars, Alan and Jane Hulme who have been with us for just over six years. They now move into a well-earned retirement. *

The transformation of St Oswald’s over that period is amazing. They both felt a deep call of God to come to Rugby for a ‘period’ and bring healing and wholeness into St Oswald’s. For all sorts of reasons, the congregation at St Oswald’s needed deep healing and bringing back into life and love, not least a love for one another. The building itself was also in need of ‘healing.’  Over the last six plus years they have led us on a journey of transformation.  (Interrupted by Covid!)  One of their first tasks was to call the Church to repentance. We spent Lent in prayer and fasting with Alan and Jane making themselves available to hear any stories of hurt, anger or anguish. A Service of Reconciliation was held, and we moved into Easter with a firm grip and understanding that the past has been recognised, we have sought forgiveness and now it is time to move on and build for the future. Having dealt with the past, they then began to help us build a life of prayer, discipleship, fellowship and outward facing ministries. Always asking the question of anything done, why are we doing this and how does this connect to the life of Faith and helping people encounter God or to grow as a disciple of God. Nothing was, or is done ‘just because we have always…’  Things are tried, some work and grow, others don’t and are stopped or tweaked.  

They concluded their time with us this morning by giving us ‘Ten Top Tips for a Vacancy.’ One of which was to remember the past, but don’t stay there. To try and ban the phrase, ‘When Alan and Jane where here they did it like this,’ hence it becomes something written according to the Law of the Medes and Persians!  (See Daniel 6:8)

Apart from reflecting back on the time Alan and Jane have been at St Oswal’s, which coincidently has largely mirrored our own time here, we both arrived at much the same time, I have been reflecting on dates and time. 

A well-known phrase from Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 comes to mind, ‘There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:’

Popularised for those old enough to remember by "Turn! Turn! Turn!", also known as "To Everything There Is a Season", a song written by Pete Seeger in 1959.  It became an international hit in late 1965 sung by the American folk rock group the Byrds. 

 (The song was originally released in 1962 as "To Everything There Is a Season" by the folk group the Limeliters.')

Those dates in our diary, for good or ill, for pain or for pleasure, they come, they present themselves, and then they pass, but always leaving some trace, as any reader or watcher of detective stories know.  

'Time, like an ever-rolling stream,

   Bears all its sons away;

They fly forgotten, as a dream

   Dies at the opening day.'

Last week I reflected on a little of my own journey of coming to embrace the Christian Faith. As I entered my teens I knew that no matter what I did, or where I went, or however rich or poor I might become, that one day, my name would be written on a little brass plaque on a coffin lid. Name, date of birth date of death.

This was one of the most abiding memories of my dad in his coffin. Shortly after my six birthday he was killed in road traffic accident at the age of 36. Following the custom of the time he was laid to rest in the front room of our council house. The coffin was left open and the lid propped up against the wall. That little brass plaque became a deep-seated memory that would come back to haunt me as I grew into my adolescent years.

That date will come, that birthday, that wedding date, that anniversary, that holiday. That dentist appointment or that operation or scan.  For good or ill these dates and days will come and go and leave their mark.

However, unlike the Law of the Medes and Persians, what kind of mark is left is not ‘set in stone’ (to mix metaphors). We, to a greater or lesser degree, can make choices.

Another of the ‘Top Tips’ spoken of today was to regularly read the Bible. In retirement I have come to appreciate the Scriptures and their depth of wisdom in a whole new way, largely through podcasts, especially from the Bible Project and Tom Wright but from other sources as well.

'Take a deep dive into the wisdom of Scripture.' 

That wisdom gained from reading Scripture can help us make good choices. For example, one of the overriding motifs of Scripture is that of flourishing. Both my own flourishing and the flourishing of the ‘other.’  Therefore, that is a question to ask, will what I am about to say or do (or not do!) bring flourishing? If you have time listen to this podcast of an amazing Christian entrepreneur who, informed by Scriptures, especially Jesus’ parables, has set up several companies that seeks the flourishing of everyone involved in the business at whatever level. https://open.spotify.com/episode/60ehAlo9ZzeuGTyBx5geN9?si=c1503b3329fc4265

As we experience the ebb and flow of life we might make this our prayer; ‘Our God, our help in ages past, Our hope for years to come, Be thou our guard while troubles last, And our eternal home.

https://youtu.be/N-hN740J6qA?si=vXEt4yVU8qVrNnOp

* Watch the Service on YouTube - 

https://www.youtube.com/live/Npx5aquvVFU?si=UcWTJkgcpGq8KYyT

'Walking the Way' - Reflection 12th April 2026

On Saturday last, April 11th,  'I Am Maximus' became the first horse since Red Rum to regain his crown in the Grand National, as Willie Mullins also became the first trainer since Vincent O'Brien in the 1950s to win three successive editions of the Aintree spectacular.

Another record was set by jockey Bruce Hobbs in 1938. Born on Long Island, New York, Hobbs became the youngest and tallest jockey to ride the winner of the English Grand National when successful on Battleship, a son of Man o' War, in 1938 just three months after his 17th birthday. Two weeks later, he won the Welsh Grand National on Timber Wolf. At the end of the 1937–38 season, during which he rode 35 winners, he became the first jockey to win three Grand Nationals in one year, lastly the Cedarhurst version.

Following the Second World War Bruce Hobbs began a career as a trainer, becoming a private trainer for John Rogerson at Letcombe Regis in Berkshire. In 1953 he moved to Newmarket, Suffolk and became assistant trainer to Cecil Boyd-Rochfort. In 1961 and 1962 he was assistant to John Clayton. In 1964 he moved to the Carlburg stable near Newmarket and became private trainer to David Robinson. Hobbs became a public trainer in 1966, basing himself at the Palace House stable where he remained for the rest of his career.

And in 1966 Hobbs signed up a young lad from Lancashire as an Apprentice Jockey.  This young lad carried the same name as a famous goalkeeper, Gordon Banks, and by a strange coincidence joined Hobb’s stable in the very same day when England won the world cup with Banks in goal.

What took me to take this somewhat unusual step wasn’t a deep love of horses, or of racing, or anything to do with the sport at all. Up until that point I had zero interest or knowledge about racing and the only thing that came close to riding a horse was a donkey ride on Blackpool beach!

What took me there was adolescent angst about dying, more particularly about dying unknown.  Not an untypical angst for teenagers to battle with as they grow up and begin to grow away from their parents. (In the ordinary course of things)

In short I hoped to become famous, so that when I died, as I was acutely aware that I would do one day, that my death would be noted and not be a mere little note in the obituary column of the local newspaper.  

At the age of fifteen and preparing to leave school I was underdeveloped and stood less that five-foot and weighed in at less than six stone.  When talking about what we would do when leaving school, it was my best pal, James Masters who quipped that I ought to become a jockey because of my size. That quip sowed the seed that eventually led me to traveling down to Newmarket, to Palace House Stables, so named because they were at one time the royal stables of Charles 11, a keen advocate of horse racing.

I never did become a jockey, famous or otherwise and after serving my five years as an Apprentice Jockey I left the racing game and began a raft of various other jobs, principally as a bartender in hotels in and around Newmarket.

God never really featured in my thinking or concern during any of this period. I had left school, St Anne’s Church of England Secondary Modern School, with a deep fascination with Jesus but a deep dislike for any form or organised religion and the Church.

That was to change in 1974 when I began to work for Spillers Food & Nutritional Centre as an Animal Technician. There, I was to meet David, a man like me in his mid-twenties. However David was a Christian, and a Christian of a type I had never met before, one who had a lively and active faith.  I began working there in March 1974 and by the winter of that year I had begun to look again at the Christian Faith and still have the Bible David gave me in November 1974.

It was reading that Bible that I read Colossians 3.3 – ‘For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.’

This proved to be a light-bulb moment, my Damascus Road, my enlightenment. On the 1st January 1975 I made a New Year's Resolution to become a Christian. 

My life, my true life, my God given authentic life, was not to be found in fame or fortune, but in walking with Jesus. It was not having my name in headlines but written in ‘The Lambs Book of Life.’   (See Luke 10.20)

Today at St Oswald’s we reflected on the Emmaus Road story, Luke 24.13-35.  We were encouraged to consider Jesus as the ‘master evangelist’ and consider the ways he acted in this encounter.  (To see the sermon visit - https://www.youtube.com/live/_1R7Jn85MA8?si=MClUAY8knRCfJfnY)

These are some of the key points on which we were invited to ponder.

What’s our story, what does Jesus mean to us, how did we come to encounter the risen Jesus.  Note in this story it was while these two disciples were ‘walking away’ from Jerusalem, It was when they were at their lowest, when they were downcast, befuddled and massively disappointed, all hopes and dreams shattered. Jesus joins them and walks alongside with them, ‘going away from Jerusalem’   - this is love ‘going out of its way’ for the sake of the other, to bring them Good News.

Jesus listened to their story and only then began to respond to their disappointment.  Listening is a key skill we can learn and develop.  A few weeks ago, I undertook the Prison Fellowship training for Bereavement Counselling.   (Bereavement especially for prisoners is broader than the death of a loved one) Listening was one key skill were encouraged to develop.  Not long ago Radio Four had a series called, ‘Across the Red Line’ Two people on the opposite sides of an issues were invited to sit across their opponent who was allowed to speak without interruption. There opposite number was then invited to reflect back what they had heard.

The other key thing we learn from the Emmaus Road story is Jesus’ knowledge of Scripture, his knowledge of the big picture. How good are we at knowing this bigger picture, how good are we at using Scripture to reflect back on what’s happening in people’s lives and in the world.

I am not taking here about selective proof text to be stuck on like some plaster, but knowing the stories, knowing the flow of things. Helping people sit into the deep wisdom to found in the Scriptures.

For example, in this past week my son and I were having a back and forth on WhatsApp about education (he is a teacher). We talked amongst other things about human flourishing, one of the primary reasons for education. This is a major motif of the Scriptures, our own flourishing, that is, what makes for the good life, (see Psalm 1) and what helps the flourishing of the ’other.’ 

I recalled hearing a story of lady who came from Uganda and secured her dream job in Switzerland. However, after she moved there with her young family she then moved back.  She didn’t want her daughters growing up in the atomised individualistic atmosphere of Western culture.  Practically she missed the support of her community. An African proverb says, ‘it takes whole village to raise a child.’   

Ponder this…

What is your story of meeting Jesus and are able you able to tell that story?

Have you found Jesus to be there at your lowest moments, bringing you encouragement?

How good are you at listening? Maybe with a friend try the exercise of listening and then reflecting back what they have just said.

How well do you know the Scriptures, the stories, the overriding themes and motifs?

How good are you at going out of your way to be with the ‘other’ and journeying with them?

For we know that a little bit of love goes a long, long way…

Ponder on your part in sharing God's love as you listen to this song.

https://youtu.be/auwgDr2BA7E?si=_hLtj2bFR9ZDqIJu

 

 

 

 

 

 

'Are we there yet?' - Weekly Reflection 'Holy Saturday' 2026

 

‘Are we there yet’ – who hasn’t heard that from the back seat of the car, or a bus or train. Usually from a young person, possible a child, or in the film Shrek, from a very annoying donkey!

Patience seems to be in short supply these days, especially on the roads. We have come to expect things to be done quickly. Interestingly a few weeks ago I was with a small group in the Church of the Ascension, the Orthodox Church in Rugby. Their ‘liturgy’ has changed little in the last 1500 years. Our hosts spoke about this feature of the Orthodox tradition that doesn’t go in for swift changes.

And so today, what name do you give this ‘in-between’ day, between Good Friday and Easter Sunday. A priest friend of mine posted on Facebook a raft or resources, music, readings and prayers, which he referenced as Silent Saturday. The Orthodox makes much of Christ’s descent into hell and setting captive souls free, principally Adam and Eve, and then binding Satan and ushering in new creation. In the Western Church this was known as the ‘Harrowing of Hell.’ See What is the Harrowing of Hell?

A more common name for this day is ‘Holy Saturday.’  

For many others of course this is simply Easter Weekend or even Bank Holiday Weekend with little or no reference to the crucifixion, resting in the tomb or the resurrection. I would hazard a guess many in our prisons would hold that view, and possible aggrieved or frustrated that they cannot be with family and friends over the Bank Holiday Weekend.

For some of course they will adopt the Jewish calculation for the start of the day which begins at 6pm on Saturday, i.e. Saturday 6pm is the beginning of Easter Sunday. Many will be holding Easter Vigils and Resurrection Celebrations this evening.

Several other Christian Faith Communities will be holding a Dawn Service, complete with a New Fire, from which the special Paschal Candle is lit, often with great ceremony being taken into the darkened church with the call of, ‘The Light of Christ.’  From this candle all other candles are then lit, so the light of Christ spreads amongst his people. Coventry Cathedral has a Dawn Service with Baptism and Confirmation at 6am.

I like Dawn Services and have led and participated in very many over the years. My first experience was a large, lively Anglo Catholic Church in central London. I have taken part in Dawn Services on Bodmin Moor, by the River Tyne and outside Stafford Castle.

And today many Churches across the country will also have been a hive of activity preparing floral displays and other decorations, dressing the Church following its 'stripping' on Maundy Thursday. 

And it is here that I have an issue, it is here where I detect that cry, ‘are we there yet.’ Can we get on and begin the celebrations, we aren't comfortable with a dead Messiah.

Have you ever really pondered on the utter desolation felt by Jesus’ disciples?

Now that same day two of them were going to a village called Emmaus, about seven miles from Jerusalem. They were talking with each other about everything that had happened. As they talked and discussed these things with each other, Jesus himself came up and walked along with them; but they were kept from recognizing him.

He asked them, “What are you discussing together as you walk along?”

They stood still, their faces downcast. One of them, named Cleopas, asked him, “Are you the only one visiting Jerusalem who does not know the things that have happened there in these days?”

 “What things?” he asked.

“About Jesus of Nazareth,” they replied. “He was a prophet, powerful in word and deed before God and all the people.  The chief priests and our rulers handed him over to be sentenced to death, and they crucified him; but we had hoped that he was the one who was going to redeem Israel. And what is more, it is the third day since all this took place.

All their hopes, dreams, expectations, gone and buried deep in a tomb behind a huge stone.

What I long for is for the Faith Community to sit into this despair for at least some time on Holy Saturday. Maybe in the morning, followed by a simple shared lunch and then together begin the decorations and preparations as we slowly turn the corner from despair to celebration.

Along with considering the despair of Jesus’ first followers we can also seek to sit in lamentation for the utter carnage currently engulfing our world.

In many, many places across the world a parent will have buried a dead child, a child for which they had hopes and dreams. Now, all gone, wiped out by bomb or bullet.

What about those in our prisons, or those who are homeless or poorly housed. Or children living in poverty. Or what about yet another death of a young person in London, shot to death by teenagers.

Can we not watch with those for whom all hope is gone, the pain is real and visceral. Must we simply jump from Good Friday to Easter Sunday and never sit in the pain and anguish of our world, even if for at least an hour!

Pain and suffering are not easy to live with, and we will often try distraction techniques, or plain simple avoidance.

St. John of the Cross, a 16th-century Spanish Carmelite friar and mystic, is renowned for his profound insights into the spiritual journey, particularly the experience of suffering

 “The evening news is the Dark Night of the Soul.”

“The evening news is the Dark Night of the Soul.” This is a more modern interpretation, but it captures the essence of St. John’s teaching. The constant stream of suffering and negativity in the world can be overwhelming and lead to a sense of despair. This is a collective “Dark Night” that we all experience to some degree. St. John would encourage us to respond to this suffering with compassion, prayer, and a renewed commitment to living a life of love and service.

‘Are we there yet?’

Jesus made the journey through pain and suffering and invites us to follow in his footsteps! 

'It is finished' - John Groban

https://youtu.be/M6qW8P70nUU?si=auIQzOuKISos5HO_

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

'Heart Transplants'' - weekly reflection 29th March 2026

 
1n 1967 Dr Christiaan Barnard (1922-2001) performed the first human heart transplant. Around 1968/69 my mum also underwent major heart surgery in having a faulty heart valve replaced with a mechanical one. You could hear it ‘clunking.’  This gave her a whole new lease of life.

I remember the first time I undertook any ‘serious' study of the Scriptures while I was living in London. The tutor impressed upon us, as we were exploring the Old Testament, the primacy of Ezekiel 36.26-27, ^“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.”

Like most people I have been watching events unfold in Iran and Lebanon, whilst also very aware of other conflicts including the ongoing grinding war in Ukraine. There are 40 armed conflicts as of March 2^nd 2026.

Jane and I recently watched the documentary, ‘Mr Nobody against Putin'. It is a hard watch but one which everyone should watch. It documents the shift in one remote Russian town as the propaganda machine of Putin's regime places legislation that forces schools into teaching propaganda. The children in the school move from being typical children to be fully indoctrinated, with military songs and marches and ready and prepared to go and fight and die for Mother Russia.

On one occasion when Jesus was being challenged on religious observance he remarked,” … out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.”

The heart of the matter is the matter of the heart!

We need a heart transplant.

In Proverbs 6:16-19 we read, “There are six things that the LORD hates, seven that are detestable to Him: / haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, / a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that run swiftly to evil, ...”

However you call it, that is a describer for some of our world leaders currently, and their actions.

There have been a few posts appearing on social media recently calling for Britain to claim back it English Christian heritage.

The historian Tom Holland in his book ‘Dominion’ clearly demonstrated that Britain was built and developed on a Christian foundation. I could agree with the call to some degree if we were going to endeavour to be guided by the principles of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount, however, I suspect that is not what is being advocated.

It is heartbreaking to consider all the billions of dollars spent on prosecuting the war in Iran and Lebanon. If it had been spent in aid programmes, even in America, it could have eradicated a huge number of their current problems, homelessness and unaffordable medical treatment for example.

^“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. 

Ponder this as we enter Holy Week and follow Jesus to the cross on Good Friday.

Wood is good, it is useful both in its natural form as trees, but also as a means of making furniture, shelter or even a fire on which to cook and keep warm.

What it isn’t good for is to turn it into a cross on which to hang humans beings so that they die slowly in excruciating agony.

Consider this, someone at some time imagined this use of wood. That thought became the deed and became a cross for crucifixion.

Where does your imagination take you as you go about your daily life?

Are you looking at things and thinking how they might bring flourishing and life and light into the world, into someone else’s life?

Have you had a heart transplant wrought by the Spirit of God?

How does that manifest itself as you go about your daily life.

^“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5.22-23.

Jesus said, “The thief enters only to steal, kill, and destroy. I came so that they could have life—indeed, so that they could live life to the fullest.” John 10.10.

That lies at the heart of the matter. Is what our leaders and politicians are doing bringing life and flourishing, does it demonstrate the fruit of the Spirit? Or are their actions those of a thief who come only to kill and destroy?

And always remembering that we  might not be called as politicians or world leaders of nations, yet we do have our own sphere of influence. We also need to check our own hearts and if we are bearing witness to the fruit of the Spirit in our own lives.

Psalm 24.3-5

‘Who may ascend the hill of the LORD? Who may stand in His holy place? Those who have clean hands and a pure heart, those who do not lift up their soul to an idol or swear deceitfully. They will receive blessing from the LORD and vindication from the God of his salvation.…

Jesus said, “Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.” Matthew 6.21

This is a song from a bunch of folk who have experienced a heart transplant and are living abundantly and free. *

https://youtu.be/hQahQg8ymyQ?si=nmM92xuM3UGmMluP

Why wouldn’t you want this for yourself and everybody, including the current USA Administration, and the Russian regime and indeed the Iranian regime.

Now that’s a big bold call to bring before our Heavenly Father in prayer. Maybe something to bring before God next Saturday, Holy Saturday, (not Easter Saturday!) as we spend sometime in reflecting on the devastating darkness and despair of those first disciples, and as we look out into our world facing  darkness and despair.    

 * Mountain People: We are a Group of Ex: Orphans, Drug Addicts, Incarcerated folks, and other notorious sinners that have been redeemed and transformed by Jesus. These are our songs!

 

 

 

 

 

 

'In all things...' - Weekly Reflection 22nd March 2026

 On Saturday if I don’t have anything on I like to go for a longer run. And maybe a tad ‘old school’ but I like to listen to the radio and my go-to for very many years has ben Radio Two. I love the mixture of banter and music and the various features. One of those features from the time when Claudia Winkleman was in the saddle was ‘little wins.’ People were invited to tell of their little wins, something in the grand scheme of things is insignificant but helps to cheer us up and make us feel positive.  I had a little win on Wednesday.  I was at a meeting of the Farming Community Network (www.fcn.org.uk) and was tasked with setting up our Zoom link and especially to bring our speaker into the room via a Zoom link. I had tried to facilitate a hybrid meeting before but never quite managed to get it to work. But on Wednesday I managed to get everything working.

On Friday I was with the group who meet at St Andrew’s, Rugby for a discussion around Scripture or a theological issue, or during Lent and Advent a book. Currently we are working our way through ‘Meeting God in John’ by David Ford. On Friday we discussed the idea of glory, what it means and how we give God glory.

This linked in with our Gospel reading for this Sunday morning, the 5^th in Lent, sometimes called Passion Sunday, John 11.1-45, the story of the raising of Lazurus.

John 11.4 ..."This illness does not lead to death; rather it is for God's ‘glory’, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it."

The Hebrew word for glory is ‘kabowd’ and carries the sense of weight or heaviness. This is a common metaphor in common usage in English, consider, weighty matters, not understand the gravity of the situation.

On ‘glory’ I can highly recommend The Bible Project podcast.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5uldfj3NinUEJPu2YUWxzp?si=Z1biI2rbSVyDkWpJR8ejug

Weighty, important, attributes of God the creator and sustainer of the world.

In 1 Cor 10.31 we read, ‘whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.’

Whatever you do! I wonder how good we are at recognising that in everything we do we are to do it to the glory of God, so that God may be glorified. That includes getting a Zoom link to work!

Because humans are called to reflect God as image bearers, the Imago Dei. 

St Irenaeus from the second century wrote, ‘The glory of God is man fully alive.’

When we are at our best, and living the best life, we are glorifying God. Like the moon reflects the light of the Sun so we are called to reflect the light of the Son. 

In the Westminster Shorter Catechism, a historic Reformed Christian summary of doctrine that was written in 1646 by a group of English and Scottish ministers there is the quote “The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy him forever.”

That is our calling, something we pray for when we say the Lord’s Prayer.

‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.’

Hallowed means to be held in highest honour, to show respect. Something we do by bringing glory to God by the way we live.

And we do that as we read in Matthew 5.16 by letting ‘our’ light shine out,

 ^‘In the same way, let ‘your’ light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.’

Last Saturday I didn’t go for a run but instead had a cycle ride. One of the things I do when riding my bike, day or night, is to have lights on. Last week I had to get new batteries for my rear light so it would shine out. 

I wonder where I might shine my light in the week ahead. Is my light needing some new batteries, does the lens need a good cleaning, are the contact points working well.

And the biggest challenge, will everything I do, in word, thought and deed bring illumination and glory, honour and praise to God the Father. Helping others shine out and glorify God and bringing hope into the dark places in our world. 

Perhaps you might like to step into that challenge as well.

In all things, at all times, in all places and in all circumstance may we give glory to God in the highest...

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'Who are you to tell me who I am.' - Weekly Reflection 15th March 2026

 It still happens with our grandchildren, the twin boys, James and William. I reference one and yet mean the other! They are not usually slow in correcting my error.

Identity has been a theme I have bumped into several times in the past week.

In our Connect Group (Home Group) we were exploring the woman Jesus encountered at the well.  We know her as perhaps a woman of dubious morals, and we know of her as a tad feisty in as much as she was willing to talk back to Jesus. And we know she was one of the first ‘evangelist’ as she ran back into the village and said, “come and see a man who told me everything I ever did.”   Jesus restored her dignity and restored her to the community. Being at the well on your own at noon is an indication that she was ostracised by her community. The Eastern Orthodox Church takes this a step further and identifies the woman and names her as a celebrated saint, St Photini and they present her in a very positive light. See Photini: Mother of Evangelists — Know Your Mothers

And in this story it is worth noting that Jesus identifies himself as ‘I am’ with all the deep connotations that phrase means linking in with Moses’ encounter with God at the burning bush. (Exodus 3)

On Wednesday evening I joined 'The Welcome Directory’ on Zoom for a 'Spotlight.' . The Welcome Directory

The ‘spotlight’ on this occasion was on the importance of accommodation for those coming out of prison. We heard of the work of two charities who are offering help in accommodating ex-offenders. Hope in Action - Hope Into Action UK and The Langley Trust - Langley Trust

 Frank was a guest who had been helped by Hope into Action. From an extremely challenging childhood, Frank drifted into a life of crime that ended up with a very long sentence.  However, he told of how Jesus had illuminated his life, giving him a new purpose and identity. The work of the charity and the accommodation all helped him upon release. It was a delight to see him glowing with the presence of Jesus.

And having a new identity in Christ was the subject of our reflection at St Oswald’s this morning as we explored Colossians 3: 12-17.  Here, Paul outlines the former life of some of the Colossians, and the new life they were now to live as followers of Jesus. Verse 17 ‘Whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ,’ giving thanks to God the Father through him.’

This is to be our new identity, because ‘you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.’  (verse 3)

No longer a prisoner, or even an ex-offender, or a woman of dubious morals, no longer labelled by others, but rather loved by God, a son or daughter of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

However, we have to choose to step into this reality and steep ourselves in this new reality every day. And a deep engagment with the Scriptures in one way to help in this endeavour.

And this is a matter of the will. I remember my first post at the Church of the Holy Cross, Marsh Farm, Luton. The Vicar, Bob Branson, was always keen to point out to couples being prepared for marriage that it is only in Hollywood Movies that couples say, I do. The actual phrase is ‘I will.’ It is a matter of the will, a matter of choice, a matter of always making that choice in all situations.

And living in that reality we will bear fruit as we are clothed in Christ.

^‘Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.’ (verse 12)  (And couldn't we do with some of that in our world at this time!) 

Many commentaries chose to reference the Samaritan woman as someone of previous dubious morals, the Eastern Orthodox follow’s Jesus in giving her dignity and agency.

Frank has become someone who now radiates the love of God, and has been rescued from a life of imprisonment, bitterness and anger and labelled as an ex-offender, a criminal.  

To round of the week on Saturday I took part in some excellent training from Urban Saints about Neurodiversity and how we can offer a welcome to everyone in our Churches by making various adjustments. Home · Urban Saints

I volunteer with RDA (Riding for the Disabled) Riding for the Disabled Association (RDA) - Enriching lives through horses Our riders come with all sorts of constraints on their life, some in wheelchairs. What is always key is that we look beyond the presenting ‘disability’ and to see the person. ‘RDA is committed to providing life-changing experiences for disabled children and adults across the UK. We believe it’s what you can do that counts, and with your support we can do even more.’

We need to be careful of what labels we might put on people. If it is information that will help us engage in a more helpful and meaningful way with someone, then it is useful. If it becomes something that defines a person and becomes their indentity, that needs to be challanged. 

As we go through our day we may find people sticking all kinds of labels on us, not all of them helpful or kind. Some of them might be very injurious. It is a good exercise to take all these labels and put them in the bin at the end of the day, to acknowledge and recognize that first and foremost I am a child of God.

 

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