Sunday, 22 March 2020

'Mother One Another' - transcript of talk for Mothering Sunday 2020


Mothering Sunday 22nd March 2020

John 19:25 – 27

Just three verses that may well form part of our devotions and readings as we come to walk alongside Jesus through his passion, death and resurrection.

Three verses offering hope, love and encouragement at this most unprecedented of times across the world.

I was engaged in a Gospel Discussion recently and we were exploring the scene in the Garden of Gethsemane. We noted the fully human Jesus’ shrinking from what lay before him and pleading with his father, ”My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”



And here in this passage from John we have Jesus drinking this most vilest of all cups, filled to overflowing with all the sin of the world.

Let us be careful not to think of Jesus in simple dualistic terms, human and divine, something he was able to switch between. For Jesus was the new Adam, the one who showed how to live an authentic human life in full communion with God as Abba Father and in the world created and sustained by God. Jesus, both fully human and fully divine in perfect harmony.

And Mary here before the cross is perhaps hearing the words of Simeon from all those years ago, ‘and a sword shall pierce your own soul too.’

And this picture at the foot of the cross, where Mary’s soul is being pierced serves to remind us of the most wonderful most mystical, most magnificent story that is the Gospel, the Good News.


The Christian Faith is earthed and real and bloody, not an abstract philosophical reasoning or even rationale understanding.

It’s not a set of rules and regulations, must do and must not do.


And at a time like this, it is not even a gathering together, albeit we should gather if and when we are able once more.


We will I am sure be finding all sorts of creative ways to maintain contact, but we mustn’t allow that to become the new norm.


Heeding the words from the Letter to the Hebrews, 10.25 ‘Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another – and all the more as you see the Day approaching.’


There is the story told of a Minister visiting one of his congregants whom he hadn’t seen in Church for several weeks. The man said he had given up attending Church as he didn’t feel any need. The Minister didn’t say anything but simply leant over to the fire and pulled a coal and place on the hearth. They both watch as the coal gradually cooled down. The Minister then placed it back in the fire were it soon glowed red hot.

The Christian Gospel, the Good News is so much more than a restored relationship with Father God.  It is about a fully integrated restoration of everything, above all about restored relationships with each other as people made in God’s image and a restored relationship with the whole of the created order.


It’s been said many times and needs to be kept on being said, Christianity is not a religion but a relationship.

And here at the foot of the cross Jesus looks upon his mother with love, care and concern.  He commends to his beloved disciple the care of Mary. We can only conjecture, but this beloved disciple may have been quite a young man. Woman and younger people weren’t considered too much of a threat or likely to cause problems for the soldiers as they undertook this grizzly job of public execution.

‘Dear woman, here is your son’, and to the disciple, ‘here is your mother.’


(By this we might assume Mary’s husband Joseph had died.)

In a moment of undergoing the most appalling agony, the love, care, compassion and consideration of Jesus is demonstrated as he sets up a new special relationship between his mother and the beloved disciple.

Jesus own trial and punishment were a mockery and a gross injustice.

However, there are those who have been found guilty by due process of the law and find themselves incarcerated in prison.

On this Mothering Sunday the Prison Fellowship through the Angel Tree Project has enabled many of them to send a card to their Mothers.  For many this is seeking to make amends and restore a broken or damaged relationship with their mothers, especially young men. We should pray for them. www.prisonfellowship.org.uk

Restoring relationships takes time and effort.

Jesus bled, suffered and died that we might be reconciled to God – and to each other and to the created order.

During this time of isolation and lock down, keeping our relationships fresh and active will be challenging.

Thankfully we do have many more means of communication.


I remember leaving my home in Oldham, Lancashire at the age of fifteen in 1966 to begin a five-year Apprenticeship in Newmarket. At that time, we didn’t even have a phone at home. The only way we could communicate was by letter. Now we regularly speak to our grandchildren in Cornwall by Skype.


This difficult time we are passing through gives us a real opportunity to seek to emulate Jesus in his care for his mother.

We may be undergoing a personal trial and great difficulty but are we able to see beyond that in our care for others.

And we will know of plenty of ‘others’ who are particularly vulnerable at this time.


The same ‘others’ who were vulnerable at the time of Jesus’ earthly ministry.


The weak, the sick, the homeless or poorly housed, the aged and infirm, those in prison, those on zero contracts, those who have lost jobs.


And are we able to emulate the life of Jesus if we are in isolation, particularly his prayer life?

Not just sitting watching endless hours of TV but by spending time in prayer, developing our relationship with God. After all, this is what monks and nuns have been doing for centuries.

Agreed that to be a monk or nun is a special calling, but maybe at a time like this they have something to teach us. Thankfully much of their wisdom is available through books, podcast or daily meditations.


It is obvious that our way of life is going to be radically altered by the onset of Covid-19 for years to come.


How will we as the People of God emerge?


Well if we are careful and prayerful, we might discover that our relationship with God has deepened as we have taken the opportunity to spend time with Him while not being distracted by so many other things. Then if we have endeavoured to add action arising from our contemplation, we will discover many restored relationships with each other and with our world.

My own dream for the future arising out of this is a fresh appreciation of both the beauty and the fragility of life. That the enormous financial costs involved could be more than met by selling off stockpiles or armaments and weapons of destruction.


That we might heed Jesus’ words as he is arrested, ‘they that live by the sword shall die by the sword.’

May we battle and fight not against others but against virus such as Covid-19, against hunger and poverty, against poor housing and shelter, against slavery and domestic violence, against knife crime and so much more. All the things that kill, maim and destroy.

‘The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.’  John 10.10

May we ‘beat our swords into ploughshares and our spears into pruning hooks.’

And in all of this remembering as Jesus said on one occasion…

“Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” Pointing to his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.”

What is the will of God at such a time as this?

Well, on this Mothering Sunday we can take these words of Jesus spoken from the Cross, heed them, and then seek to ‘mother one another’ and to love each other as Jesus loved his mother - and each and everyone one of us - including you.

As you ponder that and your response listen to this beautiful song from Graham Kendrick...




This 'talk' was given as part of a Worship Service on behalf of Rural Mission Solutions - www.ruralmissionsolutions.org.uk

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