Sunday 13 October 2024

'Free Beer Tomorrow' - weekly reflection 13th October 2024

A good number of years ago when we were living in Cornwall, I made the long trip up to Oldham to see my stepfather who was in hospital and close to death.  As I was about to take my leave of him, I guessed rightly for the last time, I gave him a cuddle and told him that I loved him. With the most wonderful, puzzled look on his face, he said, ‘do you.’  Showing affection in this very particular way was not overly common amongst our family, or indeed generally.  And certainly not amongst men.  

That remains a treasured memory.  And when someone we love dies, we often reflect on our last words or maybe even our actions.  There are times of course, when sadly, those last words spoken could be angry words or unkind words.

My thoughts are landing here this week because last week on the 9th October it was the second anniversary of Jane’s great-niece being murdered during a night out in Oswestry. She was just 22 with a whole life ahead of her.  Just a few months before that, again very suddenly, Becca’s grandmother had been found dead in her bungalow by her cleaner. She was 70 and suffered a stroke.

And then on the 10th October we were back in Cornwall for the funeral of Gary Parnell. Our son’s brother-in-law who died by suicide at the age of 35.  Gary had been fighting his demons for some time but had always reached out to family or friends who had helped him through the darkness and despair.  

But sadly, not this time leaving his family and friends asking those questions about the last conversation and the last words.

At his funeral in Bodmin Crematorium the chapel was packed with people standing. At the ‘wake’ afterwards there was a crowd of at least 50+ friends and family come to offer their support to the family.  Gary’s sister, Tracey had a ‘Gary Music List’ playing and there was some good banter and a little drinking and merriment going on. As I sat there looking at all these people, all sorts of people, who knew and loved and supported Gary I reflected upon what state of mind must someone have to come to not to know of this love, care and support.

I was reminded of that adage, ‘send me flowers when I can sniff, not when I am stiff.’

Just how good are we at telling someone we love them. Just how good are we at making every effort not to let anger have the last word.

And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry… Ephesians 4.26

Let us not take people for granted, let us not take our family and friends for granted, let us seek as much as lies within us to live in peace. Today is the only day when we can say, I love you, I forgive you, let us talk, let me talk, I need help.  

Have you ever seen that sign in a pub, ‘free beer tomorrow.’    Think about that, it’s simple and yet profound.  I will tell them tomorrow, I will say sorry tomorrow, I will forgive them tomorrow, I will tell them how much they mean to me tomorrow, I will tell them I love them – tomorrow, only to discover it was too late!

 

 

'Where Do You Live' - transcript of Sermon, St Oswald's, Rugby 13th October 2024


 Romans 6:1-14

I don’t know how many of you know this, but some years ago I spent above five years behind bars – serving drinks while working in various hotels in Newmarket and Cambridge.


Today sees the start of Prisons Week which runs until the 19th October.

And prisons are very much to the fore at the moment in the UK, where we incarcerate more people than any other European country.

Where to quote a former PM, we have been tough on crime and criminals – but yet we have failed to be tough on the causes of crime.

The average IQ for 57% of male prisoners across the whole estate is that of an 11-year-old.



However, I am not going to talk about prisons or prisoners but will address the text we are engaging with, Romans 6.1-14.

But should you wish to know more about a charity I volunteer with, the Prison Fellowship, check out there web site. Home - Prison Fellowship

What I will say however, is that if we were searching for a text that would help us to meaningfully reflect on prisons and prisoners, we would be hard pressed to find a more suitable section of Scriptures as this one.

Tom Wright in his ‘Everyone’ series splits these fourteen verses up into three sections.

And if you are not familiar with these very accessible commentaries that cover the whole of the New Testament, I cannot commend them highly enough.

Wrights three headings are...

1)   Leaving the state of sin through baptism

2)   Dead to sin and alive to God

3)   The call to Holy Living

We can easily see the progressive nature of these three headings.

And this progressive concept recalls our journey as God’s people here at St Oswald’s. Where we continue to explore and seek to walk into a life lived for God where holy habits are formed and shaped.

Where we are seeking to learn how to practise the way of Faith both in our individual lives, but also as a Community of Faith.

Let’s have a look at each of these three steps towards holy living.

1  1) Leaving the state of sin through baptism.

I remember the first vicar I worked with at the Church of the Holy Cross, Marsh Farm, Luton. When preparing for baptism he used to say that symbolically, when you hand your child into my arms, you are giving up that child. You are dedicating this child to God. In effect, you could walk away and leave the child with me. Rather like Samuel’s mum did. I accept the gift of your child to God, and then hand that child back to you into the care of parents and Godparents. 

Baptism remains a contentious issue and something around which I have heard hundreds if not thousands of conversations offering different views and understandings. 


But let us not wander down that rabbit hole and see if we can discern the main point that Paul is driving at here.

Paul has just been exploring the grace of God in the face of human sinfulness. Basically, there is no level of sinfulness that will separate us from God’s love. Therefore, it might be argued, as it would appear from this letter, some where saying, great, if we want to experience more of God’s love and grace then we must sin even more.

That was Rasputin’s take, and he became involved in the most awful types of depravity on the understanding that where sin abounds, so God’s love and grace abound even more.

I don’t know if any of you recall an episode of ‘Only Fools and Horses’ where Rodney had married Casandra. The hapless Rodney after a day at work, came into the flat where he used to live with his older brother Derek, (Del boy). He sat down and made himself comfy, asking what was for tea. Del’s response was, ‘I don’t know, you better ask your wife, you don’t live here anymore.’

That’s Paul’s point here in a nutshell. If you have been baptised, then you have died and been raised to new life. Paul has the Exodus in mind and the release of Isreal from captivity in Egypt.

Symbolically we once lived as slaves in Egypt, but we passed through the Red Sea, i.e. the waters of baptism, and we emerge as God’s free people, led not by Moses, but by Messiah Jesus.

We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.  Romans 6.4

We have entered a new state of being. We have exchanged landlords, and we don’t live there anymore.  Our former landlord may threaten us, tempt us and try to persuade us to come back. But we have moved and now belong to Christ.

And if I may slide in one comment about prisoners. Surely this is what we pray for and work towards. That being held captive to sin and as a result finding themselves physically imprisoned, that they can find freedom and change their landlord. I have seen the results of this happening, and it is truly beautiful to see.

But some cynics may say, they are using the system to get an easier ride. 

Which leads onto Paul’s second point which Wright references as…

1)   2) Dead to sin and alive to God

So, you have moved in, got a new landlord, and a new life.

Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness. Romans 6.13

When we lived in Saltash, Cornwall I remember being invited to preach on a Sunday morning at HMS Raleigh Shore Training Facility in Pymouth. One of the Officers told me that one of the first things they did with new recruits was to get them out of the civvies and into uniform. This gave them an immediate sense of belonging. They were now, quite literally, going to march to a different drum.

We don’t have anything like a uniform that declares we have put ourselves under the authority of the just and gentle rule of God. However, our behaviour is our distinctive clothing, our speech is our badge and our actions our code of conduct.


That’s how you can tell if a prisoner has truly exchanged landlords.

That’s how people can tell if we have truly passed over through the baptism of death and been raised to new life, as Jesus said, 

By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:35

Of course, of course, of course we will mess things up and get things wrong this side of glory, because we are still living in the world as it is, not yet fully redeemed and restored and conjoined with heaven.

This is the now and not yet – the beginning of the end but not yet the end. But let us remember, always remember, and forever remember…

“…sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.” Rom 6.14. 

This is Wright’s third point,

3) The call to Holy Living.

Alan Redpath in his book ‘The Making of a Man of God’ wrote ‘The conversion of the soul is the miracle of the moment; the manufacture of a saint is the task of a lifetime.’

The Message has a great way of putting this in Hebrews 10.24 and a good way to end this brief exploration of Romans 6.1-14…

So let’s do it—full of belief, confident that we’re presentable inside and out. Let’s keep a firm grip on the promises that keep us going. He always keeps his word. Let’s see how inventive we can be in encouraging love and helping out, not avoiding worshiping together as some do but spurring each other on, especially as we see the big Day approaching.

In summary therefore, let us ensure that we have moved from Adam humanity to Messiah humanity, through the waters of baptism, now accounted dead to sin but alive to Christ, and clothed with the robes of righteousness freely provided by God so we can witness to the best way, the only right way, of living and navigating our way through God’s world on its journey to a full and final redemption.    


Sunday 6 October 2024

'Whare do you live?' - weekly reflection 6th October 2024

 Where do you live?

I am back into reading another book about Henry V111. This one by Tracey Borman, ‘Henrry V111 And The Men Who Made Him.’

Although serfdom in England began to decline after the Peasants' Revolt in 1381 and largely died out by 1500. It wasn’t fully ended until Elizabeth I freed the last remaining serfs in 1574.

In the system of serfdom, serfs had limited rights and privileges within the feudal system. They were not free to pursue other opportunities or move to other lands. Moreover, they were subject to the whims of their lords, who had the power to tax them, demand their labour, and even control their marriages.

In Romans chapter Paul explores what it means to be baptised and references the Exodus. The freedom from slavery, and the passing through the Red Sea and eventually on into the promised land. 

(Another story for another time!)

What Paul is seeking to emphasis is that we have exchanged landlords. We are no longer slaves to sin.  We are not serfs bound to Satan and sin as our liege lord.

‘We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.’  Romans 6.4

You may recall an episode of ‘Only Fools and Horses’ where Rodney had married Casandra. He came into the flat where he used to live with Del boy after work. He sat down and made himself comfy, asking what was for supper. Del’s response was, ‘I don’t know, you better ask your wife, you don’t live here anymore.’

We don’t live in ‘Egypt’ anymore!

Surely this is what we pray for and work towards. That being held captive to sin and as a result finding themselves physically imprisoned, that prisoners  can find freedom and change their landlord. I have seen the results of this happening, and it is truly beautiful to see.

So, you have moved in, got a new landlord, and a new life. But some cynics may say, they are using the system to get an easier ride. 

And Paul’s answer, ‘Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness’. Romans 6.13

When we lived in Saltash, Cornwall I remember being invited over the border to preach on a Sunday morning at HMS Raleigh Shore Training Facility. One of the Officers told me that one of the first things they did with new recruits was to get them out of the civvies and into uniform. This gave them an immediate sense of belonging. They were now, quite literally, going to march to a different drum.

We don’t have anything like a uniform that declares we have put ourselves under the authority and the just and gentle rule of God.

However, our behaviour is our distinctive clothing, our speech is our badge and our actions our code of conduct.

That’s how you can tell if a prisoner has truly exchanged landlords.

That’s how people can tell if we have truly passed over through the baptism of death and been raised to new life, as Jesus said,

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:35

Of course we will mess things up and get things wrong this side of glory, because we are still living in the world as it is, not yet fully redeemed and restored and conjoined with heaven.

This is the now and not yet – the beginning of the end but not yet the end.

But let us remember, always remember, and forever remember…

“…sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.” Rom 6.14

Alan Redpath in his book ‘The Making of a man of God’ wrote ‘The conversion of the soul is the miracle of the moment; the manufacture of a saint is the task of a lifetime.’

The Message has a great way of putting this in Hebrews 10.24.

So let’s do it—full of belief, confident that we’re presentable inside and out. Let’s keep a firm grip on the promises that keep us going. He always keeps his word. Let’s see how inventive we can be in encouraging love and helping out, not avoiding worshiping together as some do but spurring each other on, especially as we see the big Day approaching.

Let us ensure that we have moved from Adam humanity to Messiah humanity, through the waters of baptism, now accounted dead to sin but alive to Christ, and clothed with the robes of righteousness freely provided by God so we can witness to the best way, the only right way, of living and navigating our way through God’s world on its journey to a full and final redemption.  

And let us be those who share this ‘Good News’ and help people move house!

 


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